Thats an awkward one Mike, I dont like AOL, not many people do.
If you have kids then its probably one of the safest ones to be with though, due to its limitations and restrictions.
I am not keen on BT either, I think that youd be jumping from the frying pan into the fire if you went with them as they can give lousy service too.
To be honest I dont know who I would reccomend at the moment, its a minefiled out there these days