2 billion stars in the milky way, the closest galaxy 4 times the size of the milky way and billions of galaxy's
There must be millions of solar systems and maybe loads with more than one inhabited planet. I also expect there will be other planets that have evolved much quicker and we may be no better than average if that.
We hardly know what's going on on Mars never mind anything else
Also as earthlings we are like gremlins, greedy and selfish on the whole and i'm sure other solar systems especially where there is more than one inhabited planet may be far more advanced.
There's also nothing to say the important people on earth aren't aliens