There was one web designer recently can't remember their name now. Thats alot of help isn't it
Really I just came into say, thanks for those links they will help me too, when I finally get round do doing my website. 
Were you referring to me Michelle? Ive had a little break, now im back to learn, aid and annoy the lot of ya 8)
When you first start out designing websites i highly recommend sticking to HTML until you learn the code yourself. After that, the natural progression is to javascript (
http://javascript.internet.com is one of the best), then if you really want to go furthur i recommend PHP+MySQL or CGI/Perl. Dont go out of your depth, or you will drown in the complexity of complex languages... And as Rodders said, dont pass wind at the dinner table
