Well, i went through, peice by peice, and nothing new to report. Its either the mobo, cpu, or ram at this point (unless its the psu, which i doubt) so first i will assume that the cpu (being new) is OK, and that its the ram... my friend is letting me borrow a 512mb stick of pc2700 ddr to try instead of my pc3200, we'll see how it goes....
thanks all, I'll keep you posted
-Robert